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D-Man's picture
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 8:45am

.......Would YOU wait till marriage before loosing it if you haven't already...

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JDawg's picture

No. If she has to wait till

(Orangutan, 343
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 9:06am

No. If she has to wait till marriage, then that implies a lot of other things about her personality, beliefs, mindset, etc that are personally huge turnoffs for me.

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that translates to "I'm

AM
(Orangutan, 265
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 9:19am

that translates to "I'm sleeping with all your friends, but you have no idea"

trazer985's picture

sex is too important a part

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 9:20am

sex is too important a part of a relationship for me to find out we're not compatible after marriage. If someone cant accept that, we wont get on, thus no marriage.

Leonidas's picture

Date, sure. Marry, no. Do you

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 9:24am

Date, sure. Marry, no.

Do you buy a car without taking it out for a test-drive first? Didn't think so.

This reminds me of that one scene in Ace Ventura, where Jim Carrey wonders how to check if a girl is a Virgin.

Calling Ron Paul an isolationist is like calling your neighbor a hermit because he doesn't come over to your property and break your windows.

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NOPE - your wife is going to

HF
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 9:40am

NOPE - your wife is going to be crazy enough, can't imagine what it would be like if you took her vcard too.

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JDawg wrote: No. If she has

CF
(Neanderthal, 2,570
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 9:49am
JDawg:

No. If she has to wait till marriage, then that implies a lot of other things about her personality, beliefs, mindset, etc that are personally huge turnoffs for me.

This. If a woman is willing to wait till marriage there is something crazy about her personality, which means she is a HUGE no go.

Better yet, FUCK NO.

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D-Man's picture

Even for religious purposes?

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 10:01am

Even for religious purposes? If it was a woman who is so physically beautiful, amazing personality, fun to be around, intelligent, and loves you to bits and has had other sexual encounters in the past, just not penetrative V-Sex

Leonidas's picture

D-Man wrote: Even for

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 10:08am
D-Man:

Even for religious purposes? If it was a woman who is so physically beautiful, amazing personality, fun to be around, intelligent, and loves you to bits and has had other sexual encounters in the past, just not penetrative V-Sex

Well, if that's the case, then provided that she's fertile, loyal, and not a religious nut job, I can't see any reason why not.

I'm assuming the "other sexual encounters" were with me. If not, the hypocritical whore can go fuck herself.

Calling Ron Paul an isolationist is like calling your neighbor a hermit because he doesn't come over to your property and break your windows.

txjustin's picture

No. Fuck no. Fuck, fuck no.

O
(Neanderthal, 2,257
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 10:34am

No. Fuck no. Fuck, fuck no.

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Dated a girl for a couple

(Gorilla, 562
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 10:41am

Dated a girl for a couple months that didn't do anything beyond making out for religious reasons. She was awesome in every other way but I just couldn't handle it. It's not something I can put up with.

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As someone said, that type of

(Chimp, 8
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 10:58am

As someone said, that type of attitude carries a lot of implied meaning and reasoning I'm not comfortable with.

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how do you know she's a

(Monkey, 36
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 11:40am

how do you know she's a really a virg?

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Leonidas wrote: D-Man

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 12:53pm
Leonidas:
D-Man:

Even for religious purposes? If it was a woman who is so physically beautiful, amazing personality, fun to be around, intelligent, and loves you to bits and has had other sexual encounters in the past, just not penetrative V-Sex

Well, if that's the case, then provided that she's fertile, loyal, and not a religious nut job, I can't see any reason why not.

I'm assuming the "other sexual encounters" were with me. If not, the hypocritical whore can go fuck herself.

Unfortunately no they weren't with me. She said she's now a better christian and would not do what she did in the past unless in a marriage...

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Sure, why not? Personality is

HF
(King Kong, 1,290
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 1:09pm

Sure, why not? Personality is what matters.

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In The Flesh wrote: Sure, why

IB
(Gorilla, 562
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 1:16pm
In The Flesh:

Sure, why not? Personality is what matters.

You're joking right?

My name is Nicky, but you can call me Dre.

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Leonidas wrote: D-Man

IB
(Gorilla, 562
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 1:17pm
Leonidas:
D-Man:

Even for religious purposes? If it was a woman who is so physically beautiful, amazing personality, fun to be around, intelligent, and loves you to bits and has had other sexual encounters in the past, just not penetrative V-Sex

Well, if that's the case, then provided that she's fertile, loyal, and not a religious nut job, I can't see any reason why not.

I'm assuming the "other sexual encounters" were with me. If not, the hypocritical whore can go fuck herself.

Yah and when you find out on your honeymoon that she is a dead fish, you'll be divorcing her the next day.

My name is Nicky, but you can call me Dre.

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nononononononono

O
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 1:32pm

nononononononono

D M's picture

Nope, never

O
(Neanderthal, 3,879
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 1:34pm

Nope, never

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morgan90's picture

Yes, always... I like girls

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 2:19pm

Yes, always... I like girls who can stand up to their principles and not easily swayed by her surroundings. If she were like what you said "physically beautiful, amazing personality, fun to be around, intelligent, and loves you to bits", i don't see why sex would matter much. If you love her and like to be around her, then sex is just an extra add-on.... Personal opinion: I don't fancy girls who easily sleep around with men... And where else would you find a girl who's still a Virgin nowadays? I say she's a keeper...

Question: Is she asian btw? If she is, then this whole virginity thing kinda makes sense.

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In The Flesh wrote: Sure, why

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 1:45pm
In The Flesh:

Sure, why not? Personality is what matters.

Agree. Personality is what matters

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morgan90 wrote: In The Flesh

IB
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 2:11pm
morgan90:
In The Flesh:

Sure, why not? Personality is what matters.

Agree. Personality is what matters

Yes. And 90% odds that they're a nutjob. Not hanks.

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If she gives really good head

IB
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 2:24pm

If she gives really good head and doesn't mind doing it on command, then it wouldn't really matter. This is assuming she's not a religious nut job and any other stereotype that comes along with waiting until marriage. If she can choke one down like a pro, she's probably going to be decent in bed, too. If not, you always have the former haha.

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morgan90 wrote: Yes,

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 2:28pm
morgan90:

Yes, always... I like girls who can stand up to their principles and not easily swayed by her surroundings. If she were like what you said "physically beautiful, amazing personality, fun to be around, intelligent, and loves you to bits", i don't see why sex would matter much. If you love her and like to be around her, then sex is just an extra add-on.... Personal opinion: I don't fancy girls who easily sleep around with men... And where else would you find a girl who's still a Virgin nowadays? I say she's a keeper...

Question: Is she asian btw? If she is, then this whole virginity thing kinda makes sense.

No, she's black and an evangelical christian

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morgan90 wrote: Yes,

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 2:32pm
morgan90:

Yes, always... I like girls who can stand up to their principles and not easily swayed by her surroundings. If she were like what you said "physically beautiful, amazing personality, fun to be around, intelligent, and loves you to bits", i don't see why sex would matter much. If you love her and like to be around her, then sex is just an extra add-on.... Personal opinion: I don't fancy girls who easily sleep around with men... And where else would you find a girl who's still a Virgin nowadays? I say she's a keeper...

Question: Is she asian btw? If she is, then this whole virginity thing kinda makes sense.

Thanks by the way. I agree with you lol (obviously)

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I think it's possible to test

IB
(Orangutan, 255
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 3:46pm

I think it's possible to test if you have chemistry without having sex. Perhaps make sure she's willing to experiment and have fun in the bedroom? I mean, I don't think you'd want someone who isn't open to new things. My boyfriend had to teach me everything cause I didn't know anything about the male anatomy. I was the girl who closed her eyes & covered her ears in those awkward health classes...

I don't blame her for wanting to wait till marriage. If anything, I wish I had done the same thing. I was with a guy for 3 years, we knew exactly what kind of lifestyle we wanted & talked about kids & etc. He proposed & I slept with him. He was a Virgin too & we were each other's first bf/gf. In the end he left me cause he didn't know if what we had was love & his jewish parents didn't really help since they were always suggesting him to date other girls to know if what we had was the real thing cause they didn't want him to marry a non-jew. I thought I had found the one or whatever - I wish I had saved it. Because of this experience, I will no longer have sex with another guy till marriage. I can't respect myself anymore if I have sex with another douche.

So yeah, don't blame her for wanting to wait till marriage. She's just looking out for herself. Make sure you both have the spark or chemistry or whatever though. The last thing you'd want is a sexless marriage..

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if she's super hot, super

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 3:56pm

if she's super hot, super smart, on her way to becoming a lawyer or some shit, and will pay the rent and have my babies then YEA.

just put it in her butt until then...

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^^^ lawl

O
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 3:55pm

^^^ lawl

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febreeze wrote: if she's

O
(Neanderthal, 3,694
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 3:57pm
febreeze:

if she's super hot, super smart, on her way to becoming a lawyer or some shit, and will pay the rent and have my babies then YEA.

just put it in her butt until then...

what about if it was something not prestigious like trafic law?

febreeze's picture

i dont care if it's ambulance

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 4:00pm

i dont care if it's ambulance chasing as long as i dont have to work.

trazer985's picture

I'm wondering what we could

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 4:09pm

I'm wondering what we could say for you to think the other way. You came to this forum to ignore the naysayers and thank those that would support your clearly faltering belief (otherwise you wouldnt ask the question).

Every single resource regarding the positives of no sex before marriage are christian based organisations. I assume you are not a devout believer, or we wouldnt be having this debate.

Look at the evidence, only people who have a religious reason to rationalise this, preach it (or their parents do). There can't be any other positives to it, or there would be more takers.

Sadly, the statistics regarding successful marriages will also be very jaded, since anyone devout enough to not fornicate before marriage will also be in the divorce is a sin category.

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Izuno wrote: I think it's

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 4:16pm
Izuno:

I think it's possible to test if you have chemistry without having sex. Perhaps make sure she's willing to experiment and have fun in the bedroom? I mean, I don't think you'd want someone who isn't open to new things. My boyfriend had to teach me everything cause I didn't know anything about the male anatomy. I was the girl who closed her eyes & covered her ears in those awkward health classes...

I don't blame her for wanting to wait till marriage. If anything, I wish I had done the same thing. I was with a guy for 3 years, we knew exactly what kind of lifestyle we wanted & talked about kids & etc. He proposed & I slept with him. He was a Virgin too & we were each other's first bf/gf. In the end he left me cause he didn't know if what we had was love & his jewish parents didn't really help since they were always suggesting him to date other girls to know if what we had was the real thing cause they didn't want him to marry a non-jew. I thought I had found the one or whatever - I wish I had saved it. Because of this experience, I will no longer have sex with another guy till marriage. I can't respect myself anymore if I have sex with another douche.

So yeah, don't blame her for wanting to wait till marriage. She's just looking out for herself. Make sure you both have the spark or chemistry or whatever though. The last thing you'd want is a sexless marriage..

We connect really well and there are sparks...clear feelings when im near her and away from her and i think its the same for her

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febreeze wrote: if she's

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 4:18pm
febreeze:

if she's super hot, super smart, on her way to becoming a lawyer or some shit, and will pay the rent and have my babies then YEA.

just put it in her butt until then...

She studied economics at university and got a 1st

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D-Man wrote: febreeze

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 4:28pm
D-Man:
febreeze:

if she's super hot, super smart, on her way to becoming a lawyer or some shit, and will pay the rent and have my babies then YEA.

just put it in her butt until then...

She studied economics at university and got a 1st

that means she'll let you put it in her butt?

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febreeze wrote: D-Man

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 4:40pm
febreeze:
D-Man:
febreeze:

if she's super hot, super smart, on her way to becoming a lawyer or some shit, and will pay the rent and have my babies then YEA.

just put it in her butt until then...

She studied economics at university and got a 1st

that means she'll let you put it in her butt?

catholics have something against that, dated a mexican, doesnt even register.

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D-Man wrote: We connect

IB
(Orangutan, 255
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 4:44pm
D-Man:

We connect really well and there are sparks...clear feelings when im near her and away from her and i think its the same for her

I think a couple who has the attraction to each other will touch their partner in some way all the time. Like holding hands or spanking their ass lightly when they're walking by or a quick kiss & etc. It's the little things that shows signs of intimacy I think.

Maybe I'm just a romantic at heart haha

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trazer985 wrote: febreeze

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 4:51pm
trazer985:
febreeze:
D-Man:
febreeze:

if she's super hot, super smart, on her way to becoming a lawyer or some shit, and will pay the rent and have my babies then YEA.

just put it in her butt until then...

She studied economics at university and got a 1st

that means she'll let you put it in her butt?

catholics have something against that, dated a mexican, doesnt even register.

She's had it in her butt before, but not from me yet :p

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D-Man wrote: febreeze

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 4:53pm
D-Man:
febreeze:

if she's super hot, super smart, on her way to becoming a lawyer or some shit, and will pay the rent and have my babies then YEA.

just put it in her butt until then...

She studied economics at university and got a 1st

I mentioned her degree to point out she's not dependent on me financially, she is only 22 and trying to get a role as a junior analyst

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D-Man wrote: trazer985

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 5:22pm
D-Man:
trazer985:
febreeze:
D-Man:
febreeze:

if she's super hot, super smart, on her way to becoming a lawyer or some shit, and will pay the rent and have my babies then YEA.

just put it in her butt until then...

She studied economics at university and got a 1st

that means she'll let you put it in her butt?

catholics have something against that, dated a mexican, doesnt even register.

She's had it in her butt before, but not from me yet :p

Did i just end this thread?

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febreeze wrote: D-Man

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 5:35pm
febreeze:
D-Man:
trazer985:
febreeze:
D-Man:
febreeze:

if she's super hot, super smart, on her way to becoming a lawyer or some shit, and will pay the rent and have my babies then YEA.

just put it in her butt until then...

She studied economics at university and got a 1st

that means she'll let you put it in her butt?

catholics have something against that, dated a mexican, doesnt even register.

She's had it in her butt before, but not from me yet :p

Did i just end this thread?

Possibly...I think so

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febreeze wrote: D-Man

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 5:35pm
febreeze:
D-Man:
trazer985:
febreeze:
D-Man:
febreeze:

if she's super hot, super smart, on her way to becoming a lawyer or some shit, and will pay the rent and have my babies then YEA.

just put it in her butt until then...

She studied economics at university and got a 1st

that means she'll let you put it in her butt?

catholics have something against that, dated a mexican, doesnt even register.

She's had it in her butt before, but not from me yet :p

Did i just end this thread?

Possibly...I think so

trazer985's picture

so she's a christian that

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 6:00pm

so she's a christian that doesnt do sex before marriage because... but takes it in the ass which is completely not against the fictional book they all quote.

snog marry AVOID.

D-Man's picture

trazer985 wrote: so she's a

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 6:18pm
trazer985:

so she's a christian that doesnt do sex before marriage because... but takes it in the ass which is completely not against the fictional book they all quote.

snog marry AVOID.

That's in her past...she said she'll no longer do these things till marriage

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D-Man wrote: trazer985

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 6:38pm
D-Man:
trazer985:

so she's a christian that doesnt do sex before marriage because... but takes it in the ass which is completely not against the fictional book they all quote.

snog marry AVOID.

That's in her past...she said she'll no longer do these things till marriage

well find yourself another girl and when she gets married she can come find you. :)

I'm very biased against religious nuts. Making decisions based on no evidence is a real burn I have with humanity.

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D-Man wrote: trazer985

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 6:44pm
D-Man:
trazer985:

so she's a christian that doesnt do sex before marriage because... but takes it in the ass which is completely not against the fictional book they all quote.

snog marry AVOID.

That's in her past...she said she'll no longer do these things till marriage

LOL

sucks to be u

D-Man's picture

I think this thread has ended

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 6:46pm

I think this thread has ended lol

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trazer985 wrote: I'm

(Monkey, 61
 
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  on 2/18/12 at 7:16pm
trazer985:

I'm wondering what we could say for you to think the other way. You came to this forum to ignore the naysayers and thank those that would support your clearly faltering belief (otherwise you wouldnt ask the question).

Every single resource regarding the positives of no sex before marriage are christian based organisations. I assume you are not a devout believer, or we wouldnt be having this debate.

Look at the evidence, only people who have a religious reason to rationalise this, preach it (or their parents do). There can't be any other positives to it, or there would be more takers.

Sadly, the statistics regarding successful marriages will also be very jaded, since anyone devout enough to not fornicate before marriage will also be in the divorce is a sin category.

Actually you are wrong. There was a guy who wanted to test the exact thing you just said and thought there was less rates of divorces in Christians. The results of his survey were surprising and turns out there is a higher divorce rate amongst them.

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febreeze wrote: D-Man

 
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  on 2/18/12 at 11:12pm
febreeze:
D-Man:
trazer985:

so she's a christian that doesnt do sex before marriage because... but takes it in the ass which is completely not against the fictional book they all quote.

snog marry AVOID.

That's in her past...she said she'll no longer do these things till marriage

LOL

sucks to be u

Loool, yh you're right

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thought you were joking when

CF
 
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  on 2/19/12 at 10:43am

thought you were joking when you said she took it in the butt lol

Just a freshman looking for an opportunity to start up this dream of mine.

D-Man's picture

If I'm completely honest, I

 
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  on 2/19/12 at 11:59am

If I'm completely honest, I think she'll start initiating that she's okay with having sex before marriage..She's just not the type to naturally stay away from the ish lool...I just don't want to pressure her haha

trazer985's picture

yes, yes you do. The test for

 
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  on 2/19/12 at 12:35pm

yes, yes you do.

The test for this is to cut yourself, if the blood is red. then you do.