Losing weight -Tips..50 lbs in 16 weeks - Doable?
Basically, over the past 12 months, I have severely sprained my ankle twice and its meant I've been sitting around on my ass a lot. I've gained a fair amount of weight so needed help shedding it as soon as possible. I've put on about 25kg in the year. I'm desperate to get rid of it as soon as possible, ideally before I go back to grad school in September.
So what would you recommend? I'm joining up my local gym again, and ideally need help with:
Diet
Gym routines/etiquette
losing weight around waist (ballooned quite a bit)
building stamina as I get winded quite quickly now while playing basketball (how I sprained my ankle in the first place). Any help would be huge.
Go.






There's no such thing as
There's no such thing as targeted weight loss. Just burn more calories than you take in and you'll slim down. Figure out your resting metabolic rate, and eat at about 500 calories a day less than that. Do cardio as much as you can until you get closer to your goal weight. Nothing wrong with doing it 5 days a week. It doesn't kill gains, and you won't have to worry about that until you're thinking about bulking up (with muscle). Lift 3 days a week. Eat healthily and often so you're not starving throughout the day.
The most important thing is to make it tenable. If you go hardcore on day one, you'll probably be done by week 2 and that won't help you. Slowly make positive changes and your body will reflect your efforts. Why the emphasis on 4 months?
Generally 2lbs a week is a healthy amount to aim for and keep up.
do this: 1 bowl whole grain
do this:
1 bowl whole grain cereal + banana for breakfast at 8 am.
handful of grapes at 10:00am
Lunch at 11:30- eat another banana, an apple, green pepper slices, a bowl of mixed veggies, a cup of light soup.
2:00-another handful of grapes
P90x when you get home. Stay off the plyos and legs b/c of injury.
2 more bananas for dinner.
I'm going to assume that your
I'm going to assume that your ankle is better and if so...here's my story.
Was an athlete in college until Senior year, at which point I gained 40 lbs. I managed to lose 30 lbs in a few months after graduating, and have kept the weight off since. Look up "the Abs Diet" by Men's Health. It's a fantastic read that has amazing workouts. Switch from lifting to doing circuits, and eat healthier (the book has a great nutrition section), and you should be good to go!
wadtk wrote: do this: 1 bowl
do this:
1 bowl whole grain cereal + banana for breakfast at 8 am.
handful of grapes at 10:00am
Lunch at 11:30- eat another banana, an apple, green pepper slices, a bowl of mixed veggies, a cup of light soup.
2:00-another handful of grapes
P90x when you get home. Stay off the plyos and legs b/c of injury.
2 more bananas for dinner.
+1. Can't speak for the diet but P90x is very effective.
wadtk wrote: do this: 1 bowl
do this:
1 bowl whole grain cereal + banana for breakfast at 8 am.
handful of grapes at 10:00am
Lunch at 11:30- eat another banana, an apple, green pepper slices, a bowl of mixed veggies, a cup of light soup.
2:00-another handful of grapes
P90x when you get home. Stay off the plyos and legs b/c of injury.
2 more bananas for dinner.
this diet sucks. 4 bananas is a shit load of carbs. you are much better off eating brown rice and some lean meat for dinner rather than 2 bananas. id stick to one banana and an apple, eat slow digesting cars (brown rice, whole wheat, bran, sweet potato, etc) and a lean meat.
oldmansacks wrote: wadtk
do this:
1 bowl whole grain cereal + banana for breakfast at 8 am.
handful of grapes at 10:00am
Lunch at 11:30- eat another banana, an apple, green pepper slices, a bowl of mixed veggies, a cup of light soup.
2:00-another handful of grapes
P90x when you get home. Stay off the plyos and legs b/c of injury.
2 more bananas for dinner.
this diet sucks. 4 bananas is a shit load of carbs. you are much better off eating brown rice and some lean meat for dinner rather than 2 bananas. id stick to one banana and an apple, eat slow digesting cars (brown rice, whole wheat, bran, sweet potato, etc) and a lean meat.
yeah 4 bananas is over doing it. After p90x hit some slow-digesting carbs and a potent protein shake.
I didn't say it was your fault, I said I was blaming you.
I also find that drinking a
I also find that drinking a ton of water helps stave off passing hunger pangs. Used to drink a gallon a day between meals to help defeat the urge to snack on empty carbs.
Do some strength training too. It'll burn calories during the workout and after it's finished as well.
From an eating stand point, try to change up your habits. Pay attention to portion control, especially when eating out/ordering in. Stop eating when you are full, even if there is still food on the plate - this one can be easier said than done, as most of us habitually want to finish what's in front of us/what we paid for.
I've followed my own diet
I've followed my own diet rather than the P90x one, just eating healthier and stuff, but I definatley recommend P90x workouts. Thought it was a gimmick but I think ive started to see real results a month in
BoxerRebeller
Basically, over the past 12 months, I have severely sprained my ankle twice and its meant I've been sitting around on my ass a lot. I've gained a fair amount of weight so needed help shedding it as soon as possible. I've put on about 25kg in the year. I'm desperate to get rid of it as soon as possible, ideally before I go back to grad school in September.
So what would you recommend? I'm joining up my local gym again, and ideally need help with:
Diet
Gym routines/etiquette
losing weight around waist (ballooned quite a bit)
building stamina as I get winded quite quickly now while playing basketball (how I sprained my ankle in the first place). Any help would be huge.
Go.
If you're going for absolute speed, the fastest way would be to do a PSMF (protein sparing modified fast) with 3x a week of heavy lifting and LISS (low intensity steady state exercise on off days - eg. walking).
Read this for more (and read the rest of Lyle's articles)
http://www.bodyrecomposition.com/the-rapid-fat-loss-handbook
Basic premise is, eat 1.2- 1.5g/lb bodyweight of lean protein. Fill the rest with vegetables. Lift heavy weights. It basically works out to something like 1200 calories a day.
You'll lose weight super fast and maintain most of your muscle mass because of the protein and weights, but it's going to be absolutely miserable.
A less miserable way of doing it (that is sustainable in the long run) is doing intermittent fasting. Different ways of doing it such as 8 hr feeding windows (basically skip breakfast), alternate day fasting (skip days.. ug.. could not do that).
Couple that with a good gym program (I'd recommend starting strength or stronglifts) and you'll be good to go.
wadtk's diet is junk. You will lose weight, but not the right kind of weight. You need more protein or you will lose lean mass during your diet.
Btw, You know WSO just isn't
Btw,
You know WSO just isn't what it used to be when a thread about losing weight gets faster replies than ones about recruiting, networking and actually working in high finance...
wadtk wrote: do this: 1 bowl
do this:
1 bowl whole grain cereal + banana for breakfast at 8 am.
handful of grapes at 10:00am
Lunch at 11:30- eat another banana, an apple, green pepper slices, a bowl of mixed veggies, a cup of light soup.
2:00-another handful of grapes
P90x when you get home. Stay off the plyos and legs b/c of injury.
2 more bananas for dinner.
Grapes? I hope you're kidding.
@seedy underbelly, people
@seedy underbelly, people need something to break the monotony of "I didn't get any BB interviews, am I fucked?" questions.
And I'm pretty sure that diet was a troll, I'm a slim/athletic 5'2" girl and I'd starve/go crazy on that.
The workout consistently/eat healthy/sleep enough thing is the best method that will last you in the long run. Get a trainer at a gym for a few weeks to start you off on a good routine (and then do it on your own bc it's a waste of money once you learn it). Work on running/long distance and interval training. That's really the best way to lose weight in addition to just lifting, as long as you're eating healthy (for that: see a nutritionist or ask someone else who looks fit at the gym, or your trainer). Also, real food tastes infinitely better than protein shakes and is probably cheaper. Avoid supplements.
kimbo wrote: wadtk wrote: do
do this:
1 bowl whole grain cereal + banana for breakfast at 8 am.
handful of grapes at 10:00am
Lunch at 11:30- eat another banana, an apple, green pepper slices, a bowl of mixed veggies, a cup of light soup.
2:00-another handful of grapes
P90x when you get home. Stay off the plyos and legs b/c of injury.
2 more bananas for dinner.
Grapes? I hope you're kidding.
HAHA just realized that.
I didn't say it was your fault, I said I was blaming you.
My friend lost 50lbs over a
My friend lost 50lbs over a few months by doing this:
1. COUNT EVERY SINGLE CALORIE YOU EAT and make sure it's less than 1000/day
- There are foods out there that are low in calorie and relatively more filling (ie. bread @ 35 cal/slice)
2. Run/cardio 5x a week
you will drop a health 2 lbs every week. Good luck.
dietsunkist wrote: My friend
My friend lost 50lbs over a few months by doing this:
1. COUNT EVERY SINGLE CALORIE YOU EAT and make sure it's less than 1000/day
- There are foods out there that are low in calorie and relatively more filling (ie. bread @ 35 cal/slice)
2. Run/cardio 5x a week
you will drop a health 2 lbs every week. Good luck.
Less than 1000 a day is pushing it for the majority of people. It takes some serious discipline and commitment. It truly is a lifestyle change.
-Stick to fish, chicken, lean meant, bison, turkey, ham for entrees
-Oatmeal in the mornings-just plain, nothing added or it just dilutes the nutritional advantages
-water, and only water. no soda or fruit juices. perhaps some crystal light added but go easy
-cardio/weights as many days as you can 4-7days per week is good
-stop drinking
-make it fun, do swimming, basketball, get out and do sprints on the track, tennis, biking, start walking whenever you can
-get a phone app to help to you keep track of all this so you can quantify your progress on a minute-b-minute basis
-don't eat out. its never a good idea, and there are no healthy places to eat out at
-learn to love to cook, experiment, enjoy
EC Stack.
EC Stack.
bcf2011 wrote: I'm a
I'm a slim/athletic 5'2" girl.
Go on...
"Social cohesion and puritanical morality place roughly on my list of concerns between whether I'll pick up jock itch at the gym this week (not likely, since I don't go the gym) and whether it'll rain in Christchurch, New Zealand next Tuesday."
-Eddie
burnt tangerine wrote: EC
EC Stack.
Bronkaid. Yum.
"Social cohesion and puritanical morality place roughly on my list of concerns between whether I'll pick up jock itch at the gym this week (not likely, since I don't go the gym) and whether it'll rain in Christchurch, New Zealand next Tuesday."
-Eddie
Why post this on WSO?
Why post this on WSO?
If I had asked people what they wanted, they would have said faster horses - Henry Ford
Revolution
My friend lost 50lbs over a few months by doing this:
1. COUNT EVERY SINGLE CALORIE YOU EAT and make sure it's less than 1000/day
- There are foods out there that are low in calorie and relatively more filling (ie. bread @ 35 cal/slice)
2. Run/cardio 5x a week
you will drop a health 2 lbs every week. Good luck.
Less than 1000 a day is pushing it for the majority of people. It takes some serious discipline and commitment. It truly is a lifestyle change.
-Stick to fish, chicken, lean meant, bison, turkey, ham for entrees
-Oatmeal in the mornings-just plain, nothing added or it just dilutes the nutritional advantages
-water, and only water. no soda or fruit juices. perhaps some crystal light added but go easy
-cardio/weights as many days as you can 4-7days per week is good
-stop drinking
-make it fun, do swimming, basketball, get out and do sprints on the track, tennis, biking, start walking whenever you can
-get a phone app to help to you keep track of all this so you can quantify your progress on a minute-b-minute basis
-don't eat out. its never a good idea, and there are no healthy places to eat out at
-learn to love to cook, experiment, enjoy
Well, the OP asked how to lose a large sum of weight over a small period of time...not an easy task.
oldmansacks wrote: wadtk
do this:
1 bowl whole grain cereal + banana for breakfast at 8 am.
handful of grapes at 10:00am
Lunch at 11:30- eat another banana, an apple, green pepper slices, a bowl of mixed veggies, a cup of light soup.
2:00-another handful of grapes
P90x when you get home. Stay off the plyos and legs b/c of injury.
2 more bananas for dinner.
this diet sucks. 4 bananas is a shit load of carbs. you are much better off eating brown rice and some lean meat for dinner rather than 2 bananas. id stick to one banana and an apple, eat slow digesting cars (brown rice, whole wheat, bran, sweet potato, etc) and a lean meat.
This is what I've bee doing throughout my analyst stint and I'm ripped as fuck.
wadtk wrote: oldmansacks
do this:
1 bowl whole grain cereal + banana for breakfast at 8 am.
handful of grapes at 10:00am
Lunch at 11:30- eat another banana, an apple, green pepper slices, a bowl of mixed veggies, a cup of light soup.
2:00-another handful of grapes
P90x when you get home. Stay off the plyos and legs b/c of injury.
2 more bananas for dinner.
this diet sucks. 4 bananas is a shit load of carbs. you are much better off eating brown rice and some lean meat for dinner rather than 2 bananas. id stick to one banana and an apple, eat slow digesting cars (brown rice, whole wheat, bran, sweet potato, etc) and a lean meat.
This is what I've bee doing throughout my analyst stint and I'm ripped as fuck.
Well you would be more ripped as fuck if your diet wasn't so fucking dumb.
"Social cohesion and puritanical morality place roughly on my list of concerns between whether I'll pick up jock itch at the gym this week (not likely, since I don't go the gym) and whether it'll rain in Christchurch, New Zealand next Tuesday."
-Eddie
Crossfit + Paleo diet + 8 or
Crossfit + Paleo diet + 8 or more hours of sleep per night. That will be huge help
Good is the enemy of Great
tedrd.88 wrote: There's no
There's no such thing as targeted weight loss. Just burn more calories than you take in and you'll slim down. Figure out your resting metabolic rate, and eat at about 500 calories a day less than that. Do cardio as much as you can until you get closer to your goal weight. Nothing wrong with doing it 5 days a week. It doesn't kill gains, and you won't have to worry about that until you're thinking about bulking up (with muscle). Lift 3 days a week. Eat healthily and often so you're not starving throughout the day.
The most important thing is to make it tenable. If you go hardcore on day one, you'll probably be done by week 2 and that won't help you. Slowly make positive changes and your body will reflect your efforts. Why the emphasis on 4 months?
Generally 2lbs a week is a healthy amount to aim for and keep up.
Thanks for the help. No real emphasis, I thought it gives me a good window to actually make a difference. Ideally, I would like it to be quicker as I hope to start a new job soon.
Isnt 500 calories a day too little to actually prevent me from starving? At the moment, I easily consume about 2,000. As I'm gonna be a newbie at the gym again, any tips for good cardio workouts?
Neighbor wrote: kimbo
do this:
1 bowl whole grain cereal + banana for breakfast at 8 am.
handful of grapes at 10:00am
Lunch at 11:30- eat another banana, an apple, green pepper slices, a bowl of mixed veggies, a cup of light soup.
2:00-another handful of grapes
P90x when you get home. Stay off the plyos and legs b/c of injury.
2 more bananas for dinner.
Grapes? I hope you're kidding.
HAHA just realized that.
Am I missing something with grapes?
happypantsmcgee wrote: Why
Why post this on WSO?
Saw previous posts and it got a lot of great feedback so thought mine (specific cases) might get the same.
Anymore tips? Specific to gym
Anymore tips? Specific to gym routines and diets? And how to lose weight around my gut? I can see manboobs in my future if I carry on this way!
Could someone explain the
Could someone explain the Paleo and P90X diets?
duffmt6 wrote: wadtk
do this:
1 bowl whole grain cereal + banana for breakfast at 8 am.
handful of grapes at 10:00am
Lunch at 11:30- eat another banana, an apple, green pepper slices, a bowl of mixed veggies, a cup of light soup.
2:00-another handful of grapes
P90x when you get home. Stay off the plyos and legs b/c of injury.
2 more bananas for dinner.
this diet sucks. 4 bananas is a shit load of carbs. you are much better off eating brown rice and some lean meat for dinner rather than 2 bananas. id stick to one banana and an apple, eat slow digesting cars (brown rice, whole wheat, bran, sweet potato, etc) and a lean meat.
This is what I've bee doing throughout my analyst stint and I'm ripped as fuck.
Well you would be more ripped as fuck if your diet wasn't so fucking dumb.
Went to the doctor today for a physical. He said he wouldn't change what I'm eating, especially b/c of my workout regimen. Of course, I knew he would say this.
wadtk wrote: duffmt6
do this:
1 bowl whole grain cereal + banana for breakfast at 8 am.
handful of grapes at 10:00am
Lunch at 11:30- eat another banana, an apple, green pepper slices, a bowl of mixed veggies, a cup of light soup.
2:00-another handful of grapes
P90x when you get home. Stay off the plyos and legs b/c of injury.
2 more bananas for dinner.
this diet sucks. 4 bananas is a shit load of carbs. you are much better off eating brown rice and some lean meat for dinner rather than 2 bananas. id stick to one banana and an apple, eat slow digesting cars (brown rice, whole wheat, bran, sweet potato, etc) and a lean meat.
This is what I've bee doing throughout my analyst stint and I'm ripped as fuck.
Well you would be more ripped as fuck if your diet wasn't so fucking dumb.
Went to the doctor today for a physical. He said he wouldn't change what I'm eating, especially b/c of my workout regimen. Of course, I knew he would say this.
You are so full of shit it's not even funny. Congrats genius. Why don't you go to bodybuilding.com and see what they think of your diet? You will get laughed off the forum.
Fucking newb.
"Social cohesion and puritanical morality place roughly on my list of concerns between whether I'll pick up jock itch at the gym this week (not likely, since I don't go the gym) and whether it'll rain in Christchurch, New Zealand next Tuesday."
-Eddie
Cut the junk food, cut ALL
Cut the junk food, cut ALL grains (excessive, unnecessary source of carbs and anti-nutrients). Eat hearty protein and fat-filled meals. You can drop 2+ pounds per week. The math doesn't add up as far as using exercise to create a calorie deficit. You'll just feel starved if you even achieve this. Note--I'm not suggesting indefinite ketogenic diet, but if you go very low carb for a period, you *will* jumpstart weight loss. 100-150g of carbs for maintenance weight should do it. You need nourishment to trigger satiety and proper hormonal/body composition, and this is achieved by switching off your "fat sensor", the leptin hormone--by eating fat and the accompanying nutrients. This is a gross over-simplification, but the data, studies, books, info are out there. Don't follow conventional wisdom on this, it has not worked for the masses, now, has it?
alanja wrote: Cut the junk
Cut the junk food, cut ALL grains (excessive, unnecessary source of carbs and anti-nutrients). Eat hearty protein and fat-filled meals. You can drop 2+ pounds per week. The math doesn't add up as far as using exercise to create a calorie deficit. You'll just feel starved if you even achieve this. Note--I'm not suggesting indefinite ketogenic diet, but if you go very low carb for a period, you *will* jumpstart weight loss. 100-150g of carbs for maintenance weight should do it. You need nourishment to trigger satiety and proper hormonal/body composition, and this is achieved by switching off your "fat sensor", the leptin hormone--by eating fat and the accompanying nutrients. This is a gross over-simplification, but the data, studies, books, info are out there. Don't follow conventional wisdom on this, it has not worked for the masses, now, has it?
That's because keto diets are insanely difficult to follow.
"Social cohesion and puritanical morality place roughly on my list of concerns between whether I'll pick up jock itch at the gym this week (not likely, since I don't go the gym) and whether it'll rain in Christchurch, New Zealand next Tuesday."
-Eddie
Quote: Cut the junk food, cut
Cut the junk food, cut ALL grains (excessive, unnecessary source of carbs and anti-nutrients). Eat hearty protein and fat-filled meals.
sounds like atkins...I don't know about you guys but I feel lethargic as hell on low carb/high fat diets.
AstonMartin
Cut the junk food, cut ALL grains (excessive, unnecessary source of carbs and anti-nutrients). Eat hearty protein and fat-filled meals.
sounds like atkins...I don't know about you guys but I feel lethargic as hell on low carb/high fat diets.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ketosis
"Social cohesion and puritanical morality place roughly on my list of concerns between whether I'll pick up jock itch at the gym this week (not likely, since I don't go the gym) and whether it'll rain in Christchurch, New Zealand next Tuesday."
-Eddie
-Eat Cereal, PBJs and ramen
-Eat Cereal, PBJs and ramen noodles.
-Run 5 times a week, averaging at least 5 miles. Do it on a long hill, pushing harder while going uphill. Sprint uphill on your toes a few times.
-Do some pushups/squats at least twice a week so your muscles don't atrophy excessively.
You could probably do it in 4 months this way.
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dietsunkist wrote: Well, the
Well, the OP asked how to lose a large sum of weight over a small period of time...not an easy task.
And after the 16 weeks, the OP's going to gain it all back even more quickly.
I wonder why nobody asked this to the OP yet: What do you regularly eat?
AlsatianCousin
Well, the OP asked how to lose a large sum of weight over a small period of time...not an easy task.
And after the 16 weeks, the OP's going to gain it all back even more quickly.
I wonder why nobody asked this to the OP yet: What do you regularly eat?
While I was out of commission, I tended to live by a whole lot of junk food, takeouts, etc. Since then I've cut that out, to about once every two weeks or so, with the odd slip here and there depending on when I get off work.
Generally, I try to cook a lot more now when I can.
I think key for me is to
I think key for me is to build up stamina. I used to play a lot of basketball with my frat bros but now I just tend to collapse 10 minutes in.
The weight around my stomach is worrying me and affecting other activities too.
Anyone with anymore thoughts?
Anyone with anymore thoughts? I've started a gym routine. I hit cardio and weights mostly at the moment, but I struggle with endurance at the moment. My back starts to hurt and I am struggling to catch my breath.
Again like I said, key for me is to build up stamina. How could I do that?
Also, what are the best things for me to do to lose this beer gut? Its killing me and my game.
I might also take up running.
I might also take up running. First time though. Tips?
Only way to lose the beer gut
Only way to lose the beer gut is to keep exercising...you can't choose a place to lose fat from (minus liposuction which is never a good idea haha) so you just have to keep working out and watch what you eat.
Best way to do it quickly is just do a lot of intense cardio. If you take up running, start slow and increase your effort. Make sure you learn stretches, especially for your calves (shin splints are a bitch).
Key for building up stamina (through running and other forms of exercise): mix of intervals and longer distances over separate days. Example: Do a day of 30 minutes of 1 min: run as hard as you can - 1 min: walk. Next day, set a distance for you to run (depends on your current ability) - like 3 miles--jog as long as you can, and if you have to stop, stop and walk for a minute, and as soon as you can, start running again. It's kind of like intervals when you don't have a lot of endurance. But you have to make sure you push yourself a little longer every week before taking a break. >>you can also do this on things like the elliptical and bike, but I've found you tend to work yourself harder if you're actually running.
Also if your back starts to hurt, it means you need to build up your back muscles (people generally focus too much on abs...) - look up some good exercises for your back (both body weight, and things like dead lifts, but be careful with those)--if you have time, I highly recommend vinyasa/power yoga at least once a week. Plenty of guys do it too, and it will definitely help you build up your back (and work everything else).
bcf2011 wrote: Only way to
Only way to lose the beer gut is to keep exercising...you can't choose a place to lose fat from (minus liposuction which is never a good idea haha) so you just have to keep working out and watch what you eat.
... at least once a week. Plenty of guys do it too, and it will definitely help you build up your back (and work everything else).
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TonyPerkis wrote: Thanks John
Thanks John Basedow!
Haha I had to google that...never heard of him before.
My second life after making money in finance will be yoga/fitness teacher/trainer/thing haha
I've heard breast feeding
I've heard breast feeding makes you lose weight FAST!
-MBP
Absolutely doable. Eat less
Absolutely doable. Eat less and exercise more. Recommend cycling and jogging 1 hour per day.
I'm glad you're cooking more,
I'm glad you're cooking more, but also be careful with what ingredients you use. No butter. Stick with a little bit olive oil. Try to avoid rice & pasta. Avoid alcohol - messes up your metabolism and takes longer for your body to process it. Eat more smaller portions. Eat more lean meat. Try to cut out rich foods. Avoid soda & chips and all other junk food. Drink lots and lots of water to curb hunger & to remove toxins from your body.
My sister went on this diet where she only ate fruits and veggies. You eat your veggies mostly raw unless you want to use a little bit of ranch or something. For protein, she had grilled chicken. I think she only ate fruits when she was craving sweets. She did portion control where you only eat what you can fit on your palm every 3-4 hours. She didn't really have weight to lose, but she wanted to tone up her body for her engagement party. It's a very strict diet, but after you reach your goal weight, you can slowly ease into your normal routine.
I tried to do this, but I love food too much. I don't eat junk food. But I do the portion control. To me, it's easier than counting calories. I still have alcohol from time to time when I'm out with my friends. I don't eat red meat as much, but I will cook it for a special occasion or cause I'm craving for some steak haha. I read somewhere that the point of eating isn't to feel full. You eat to give yourself the energy you need to continue with your day. By eating smaller portions every 3-4 hours, you keep your metabolism up and avoid going into starvation mode. You don't feel hungry, but you don't feel full either. For the longest time, I used to eat till I'm full, and it takes awhile for you to get used to not feeling full when you eat.
When I first started living in an apartment, I would cook the wrong things. I would tell myself cooking is better than going out to eat, and even though it was cheaper, it wasn't healthy. I looked into many recipes and tried to find a healthier alternative. For example, chicken parmesan -- I would cook it on the skillet using butter, but now, I bake it & know how to make it taste exactly the same without any butter or oil! Baking, steaming, grilling is always a better alternative than frying. Personally, I love cooking & baking so I tend to make it as a little project to find the healthiest way to cook a dish or find the best recipe for chewy chocolate chip cookies & etc.
Diet is extremely important. I read somewhere that diet is 70% & exercise is 30% to get the body you want. My ex did the p90x & it worked out for him. He usually ran on the treadmill in intervals, but after switching over to p90x to build more muscle, he noticed his stamina & endurance was higher. So perhaps you could try that.
Personally, I hate running. A great alternative is jump roping. It's good cardio & you can control the intensity as well & make it a full-body workout. Plus, it's cheap.
Sorry for this long post..hope it helped